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Growing up in a home with an alcoholic parent is a unique kind of rough.
As a child, you love this person so intensely and are so dependent on them.
My gift is not in knowing how to understand or even “drive” an alcoholic.
After nearly 15 years of dating, fucking and loving alcoholics, this is what I’ve come to know about the subject:• Alcoholics believe they are the biggest piece of shit that the world revolves around. Stronger than your best intentions.• Alcoholics fear they are not going to live up to your fantasy of them.• Alcoholics fear failure…
a lot.• Alcoholics pity themselves.• Alcoholics make empty promises.• Alcoholics lie, cheat & steal.• And they will steal your heart, too.• It’s not always obvious straightaway that you’re dating a drinker.
I’ve never had a problem with alcohol like I have with drugs, except that I have used it on several occasions as an emotional crutch.
Just to be safe, I tend to abstain from alcohol for the most part.